Know Yourself Your Inner Power.
Main pareshaan. is samay, jaisa ki main yahaan yah likh raha hoon, main vaastav mein pareshaan hoon. ek kaarak thoda hua jabaki ateet. main narsing tark mein esosiet mein aa gaya, jo vartamaan mein main us ke parinaamon ko punah praapt kar raha hoon. yah parinaamon ka ek sachcha inaam hai, main aapako bataata hoon. aaie dekhate hain ... krodh, niraasha, sharm, ghrna ... phir atirikt krodh aur aparaadhabodh is tathy par hai ki mainne khud ko gussa aur uttejit hone kee anumati dee hai. yah sab {aksar hota hai. yah ho sakata hai} aksar bhramit. yah paagalapan ka ek tareeka hai (koee aparaadh nahin). mujhe lagata hai ki yah bahut bura hai ki yah ham mein se kaee logon ke lie kaaphee praacheen hai.
Isalie, jaisa ki main yahaan baithata hoon aur stoo karata hoon, amerika ko yah pata lagaane kee anumati den ki kya ham yah sab kaam karenge. yah sab nakaaraatmak bhaavana kahaan se vaapas aa sakatee hai? khair, spasht roop se us samasya se jo pain tree stet ke lie samaan thee. jis aadamee se meree baat huee, usake saath "baatacheet" huee. ye shabd mere dimaag dvaara lie gae, vishleshan kie gae aur ek sateek "pratikriya" banaee gaee jo vishleshan ke parinaamon ka samarthan karatee hai. lekin gaharaee se ham gyaan kee maanav shaakha mein yaatra karane ke lie ek jhukaav mila hai aur isalie man ke kaamakaaj; anivaary roop se yah hai ki kya hua ka aasaan vivaran. yahee sab ham khud ke saath karana chaahate hain. ham ise saral rakhenge, is prakaar maamale ko sambodhit karane ke lie ek aasaan drshtikon ka prayaas karenge.
Samasya koee ek hee vyakti nahin hai. shabd ... bas shabd. lekin kya shabdon ka itana majaboot prabhaav ho sakata hai? isaka uttar yah hai ki ve nahin karate hain. kya parinaam hai ki kshamata hai ki ham un shabdon kee aapoorti karane ke lie ek jhukaav mila hai ... unamen se hamaaree reting ... un par hamaara vishvaas. isalie yadi koee aapako narsing chenjaling mein esosiet kahata hai, to aap sambhavatah ati utsaahit honge. kyon? mera matalab hai ki aap sveekaar karate hain ki aap narsing chenjaling mein esosiet nahin hain. sambhavatah vyakti isake prati uttaradaayee hai. nakaaraatmak pratikriya kyon? aap ise anadekha kyon nahin kar sakate? khair, aap ke parinaam ke roop mein vaayard arth hain. aap yah jaanchane ke lie khade nahin ho sakate hain ki narsing mein esosiet kahenge ki aap esosiet digree chenjaling the. yah paryaapt nahin hai ki aap bas} sveekaar karate hain ki aap narsing chenjaling mein esosiet nahin hain. aap is vyakti ko boot karane ke lie sveekaar karana chaahenge. aur isamen galat kya hai? mujhe lagata hai ki yoo.es. ke lie yah svaabhaavik hai ki ham us vyakti ko sandesh sveekaar karane ke lie kahen jo hamen apane shabdon ya kaaryon dvaara sandesh dene ke lie ek jhukaav mila hai (sandesh sahee hai ya galat hai ya nahin). aphasos kee baat hai ki hamen koshish karane aur karane ke lie kya mila hai, isake baavajood yoonit ke log hain jo cheejon kee nirantar vyaakhya karenge, lekin ve chayan karate hain. asal mein, aap kis anupaat mein jems ko dikhaate hain ki aap kis jeeniyas ke anupaat mein hain, jems (kshama karen yadi aapaka naam jems hai) tab bhee aapako narsing chengaling mein esosiet kahega, aur sambhavatah use lagata hai ki vah aapake pare hai.
Yah betuka hai! jems aap se pare nahin hain koee nahin hai. aapako vah yaad hai. apane ko sveekaar karo. usase apanee taakat ko haasil karo. aap un logon ke baare mein kya karate hain jo kahaanee ke apane paksh mein aasaanee se basane se inkaar karate hain? unhen chhodo. un par dhyaan na den. ek baar apana uddeshy poora karane ke baad nikalen. lekin main isamen shaamil nahin hooonga. main aap par bahut adhik gair dharmanirapeksh hone ke lie nahin pahunch raha hoon, lekin main ek digree banaana chaahoonga. rideemar samaan “vaikalpik gaal chaaloo karen”. mujhe lagata hai ki ham is baat kee galat vyaakhya karate hain ki nishkriyata kee nishaanee ke roop mein; takaraav se bachane kee ichchha; kamajoree ka bhee. main asahamat hoon. mujhe lagata hai ki yah narsing ekt ke esosiet {is prakaar hai. is prakaar semebodee} yooen ejensee ko apane svayan ke aantarik shakti aur mooly mein itanee taakat hai ki ve kuchh bhee nahin hai jo aapako door karane kee aavashyakata hai. mujhe gaalee do, pain tree stet par atyaachaar karo aur pain tree stet ko maaro, haan. lekin aap kabhee bhee sachchaee ko sanshodhit nahin kar sakate. jo log doosaron kee aahat karane vaalee uktiyon ko sambodhit kar sakate hain, ve vaastav mein sabase jyaada chalate hain kyonki ve in shabdon ko unake paas nahin laate hain. anyatha jagah, laathee aur patthar sambhavatah meree haddiyon ko tod denge, lekin shabd kabhee bhee pain tree stet ko chot nahin pahunchaenge. vahaan kee ksheen maatra gaayab hai. vah bit "hai ... jab tak main unhen badal nahin deta". doosaron ko kya kahate hain ya kya karate hain, is par apanee pratikriya ke lie apana man banaana aapakee shakti mein hai. apane aap par vishvaas karo, praarambhik aur mahatvapoorn. aap doosaron se nakaaraatmakata ke lie saksham honge, jabaki isase anaavashyak roop se aahat nahin honge.
Bas apane aap mein vishvaas ka yah siddhaant mere krodh aur niraasha ko phailaane ke lie paryaapt hai. jaise hee main is paath ko samaapt karata hoon, mujhe yah dheere-dheere vaashpit hota mahasoos hoga. khushee ke din! main aapako lagabhag 2000 saal pahale rom ke samraat dvaara banaee gaee ek uddharan ke saath chhod doonga… ”yadi aap kisee ek cheej se pareshaan hain, to dard khud samasya ke kaaran nahin hai, balki aapake khud ke anumaan ke kaaran hai; aur yah aapako kisee bhee samay radd karane kee shakti hai ”.
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